For the more experienced live performers here: How do you manage to keep time as you play?
My question isn't really about time keeping as much as it is about slowing down and playing slower.
Last night I did it again. When I timed the performance earlier in the day that I was to give live, my time came to 7:47. I'm allotted 8 minutes, including introduction, and I felt I had it nailed.
When I showed up, I kept telling myself, tap your feet, and keep it slow.
But I blew it. I knew I was playing too fast, and my set came to an end at 6:31.
Later that night, I thought maybe I could use an in-ear metronome. If I hear an audible-to-me-only tapping in my ear, it might force me to slow down.
What do you think? How do you manage to not speed up when you play? Is it just an experience thing? I'm not a bad time-keeper, I just tend to speed up when I play live. Huh.