I think most of the regulars here are married and seemingly happily so. The kids' mother and I divorced 8 years ago, and I had a disastrous second marriage that lasted a year. I haven't dated since my ex girlfriend and I split in January this year. I'm 58 years old and I'm single. Lately, I've been chatting with a couple of women, and I like one in particular that could never work out--such are things in the world; sometimes you don't get what you want, so deal with it.
It's interesting to see how important music is on the dating scene. I've been on dating sites, and folk list their preferences and likes. i see anything new country, and I skip em. I'm sure women see my musical likes and run and skip me--not a complaint; it's a good thing. Music is breath, food, and water.
I also find myself wooing this one with music. A few Spotify links, a recording of the guitar work on a new song. I wasn't trying to be cool. Music and writing it are a large part of who I am. Still, I might have good intentions, but I'm using music like pheromones.