Adding to my previous post. In the last trio I played with I took on a drummer and bassist who for the most part were overlooked by many if not all of the local area bands because they felt that their chops weren't up to the level of themselves. However what they lacked in experience they more than made up in desire and a willingness to listen to someone like myself with many more years of stage and studio experience.
At first we sounded like three individuals playing literally. However I started bringing my porta-studio with me to rehearsals twice a week and we began recording about an hours or so of rehearsal each time. And when we finished rehearsal or actually we took the last half hour or so of each rehearsal to listen and critque ourselves. I pointed out to them how playing together, particularly bass and drums, without over playing actually made you sound more full as a band. They began to listen and started to play more within themselves and as a unit.
After about six weeks of recording and listening after each rehearsal I decided to take our "live" demos and book this trio. Immediately we had gigs. At our first live club gig I invited several fellow musicians who thought I'd lost my mind by taking these guys on. Well after the first set most if not all of them came up to me and made statements like "we didn't know they were that good" and "WOW! they really have improved as musicains!" and on and on.
The simple fact was that they were always very good musicians! It's just that nobody had taken the time to point out where they were overplaying and in effect "mucking" the sound up.
My point with a trio is you have to work hard at not overplaying and keeping the sound tight. And learning that negative space in the arangments are your friend! Also making mistakes are a part of the process and learning not to show it while playing a gig. Smile and act like you meant to do it! 99% of the audience doesn't know how to play an instrument and think what your doing is amazing anyhow. That's why playing like Yngwie Malmsteen only impresses mostly musicians and why playing like BB King will impress the masses!
To agree with CocoTone, "look at it as a challange, and you will grow from it"
DZguitar