Backatcha, OA, but my post does not prove your point in any way.
And your domestic violence thing is the very definition of a red herring fallacy: "Rather than argue this point, here's an irrelevant topic that renders the original discussion moot." I could just as easily say that the problem of domestic violence is meaningless is the face of poverty, hunger, the coming global pandemic. How can you even worry about one guy smacking his girlfriend 'round when the world is in such peril?
You can't dismiss a fallacy by simply claiming it isn't there. Even The White House is having trouble with that these days.