I just want to tell you about a great time I had last night. A little preamble first though.
One of my sons is going through a really rough time in his life. 6 months ago, he and his wife lost a baby at 5 months and then he got laid off. He has a masters and 5 years experience. She got pregnant again and is considered high risk and so has many expensive doctors looking after her now. His job search is very frustrating for him and now his wife finds out that she is going to be laid off at the end of the school year. (Art Teacher) They have their medical insurance through her work, so that'll go out the window. Now we have two professionals having a baby without an income or insurance. Not a good situation.
Anyway, last night, I invited myself to his place to have a couple beers and see if I could lift his spirits. I took my snare drum and brushes. After the first beer, he suggests that we play some back porch stuff, so we did. He pulled out his Charango (ten stringed peruvian mini guitar sort of thing) and we played old time country for 2 hours. By the end, we were both smiling and feeling good about life. This morning, reality set in again, but at least I have those two hours with my kid and some laughs and even some decent music. I wish I had recorded it but then that would have ruined the feeling.